{"id":2943,"date":"2019-05-03T09:00:00","date_gmt":"2019-05-03T01:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/elitesinsider.com\/?p=2943"},"modified":"2019-10-16T17:17:44","modified_gmt":"2019-10-16T09:17:44","slug":"%e5%93%88%e4%bd%9b%e5%a4%a7%e5%ad%b8%e7%a0%94%e7%a9%b6%ef%bc%9a%e4%b8%80%e5%80%8b%e4%ba%ba%e6%88%90%e7%82%ba%e5%bb%a2%e6%9f%b4%e7%9a%84%e4%b9%9d%e5%a4%a7%e6%a0%b9%e6%ba%90%ef%bc%8c%e5%80%bc%e5%be%97","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/elitesinsider.com\/2943\/","title":{"rendered":"\u54c8\u4f5b\u5927\u5b78\u7814\u7a76\uff1a\u4e00\u500b\u4eba\u6210\u70ba\u5ee2\u67f4\u7684\u4e5d\u5927\u6839\u6e90\uff0c\u503c\u5f97\u6bcf\u500b\u4eba\u8b39\u8a18\uff01"},"content":{"rendered":"

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\u4e00\u3001\u7336\u8c6b\u4e0d\u6c7a<\/strong><\/p>\n

Indecision<\/strong><\/p>\n

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What is worse than recklessness is hesitation.<\/p>\n

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Those who sways with every wind are just like the grass on the top of a wall, no matter how powerful , are always easy to be defeated by those who has a strong belief. Act vigorously and resolutely will inevitably make mistakes, however, is better than doing nothing. “The fear of error is the destruction of progress,” said Whitehead.<\/p>\n

\u4e8c\u3001\u62d6\u5ef6<\/strong><\/p>\n

Procrastination<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Most of the time procrastination is to escape from a problem and laziness.<\/p>\n

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The famous thinker – Romain Rolland said \u300cLaziness is a strange thing, it makes you feel that your situation is comfort, is a rest, is a blessing; but in fact it is boring, tired, depressed.\u300d<\/p>\n

\u4e09\u3001\u4e09\u5206\u9418\u71b1\u5ea6<\/strong><\/p>\n

Brief period of enthusiasm<\/strong><\/p>\n

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80% of the failure is due to give up halfway in the world.<\/p>\n

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Most of people had the experience of making plans ambitiously, and then had to give up in despair.<\/p>\n

\u56db\u3001\u5bb3\u6015\u62d2\u7d55<\/strong><\/p>\n

Fear of rejection<\/strong><\/p>\n

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\u539a\u91cd\u800c\u8106\u5f31\u7684\u81ea\u5c0a<\/p>\n

Heavy and fragile self-esteem.<\/p>\n

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Most of the time, the pain that we go through in our interpersonal relationships is always in connection with “you think you were rejected”.<\/p>\n

\u4e94\u3001\u81ea\u6211\u8a2d\u9650<\/strong><\/p>\n

Self-handicapping<\/strong><\/p>\n

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\u6bba\u6b7b\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u6f5b\u80fd\u529b<\/p>\n

Kill your latent ability.<\/p>\n

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La Rochefoucauld said: mediocre people are always complaining about things they do not understand.<\/p>\n

\u516d\u3001\u9003\u907f\u73fe\u5be6<\/strong><\/p>\n

Escape from reality<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Escapists prefer to create their own little world.<\/p>\n

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People’s tragedy is they have a great ambition but puny ability.<\/p>\n

\u4e03\u3001\u7e3d\u627e\u85c9\u53e3<\/strong><\/p>\n

Excuses<\/strong><\/p>\n

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\u932f\u4e0d\u5728\u6211\u3002<\/p>\n

It is not my fault .<\/p>\n

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Once people made a mistake, the first reaction is often self defense.<\/p>\n

\u516b\u3001\u6050\u61fc<\/strong><\/p>\n

Fear<\/strong><\/p>\n

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\u8b39\u5c0f\u614e\u5fae\u7684\u4e14\u61e6\u5f31\u3002<\/p>\n

Timid and cowardly.<\/p>\n

\u4e5d\u3001\u62d2\u7d55\u5b78\u7fd2<\/strong><\/p>\n

Refuse to learn<\/strong><\/p>\n

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You are not lonely, just don’t want to learn.<\/p>\n

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